Three boys
are in the schoolyard bragging about their fathers.
The first boy says, "My Dad scribbles a few words on a
piece of paper, he calls it a poem, they give him
£50." The second boy says, "That's nothing. My
Dad scribbles a few words on a piece of paper, he calls it
a song, and they give him £100." The third boy
says, "My dad’s even better than your dad. My dad
scribbles a few words on a piece of paper, reads them out
on a Sunday morning, calls it a sermon, and it takes four
people to collect all the money from the people!"
Even when we
were children, we have always had the capacity to boast
about things. I remember every Christmas standing
with my friends at the local shop window, and we all
bragged about what gifts we expected to receive. One
person boasting about a particular toy wanted, and the
others all saying that they were getting the same….only
bigger and better! Of course, when it came to
Christmas Day, for various reasons, we often didn’t
receive the much expected gift, and we had to eat a slice
of humble pie later on when we having to admit we didn’t
get what we had expected to receive.
It is a well
known fact that all human beings are inherently imperfect,
but we often don’t see the imperfection within us.
In our Gospel
reading today, we heard Jesus telling the story of the
Pharisee and the tax collector. This is a well known
parable, and is essentially a story of boastfulness and
humility. However, the need for humility is not
confined to simply how we treat other people, or how we
behave in front of others, but also extends to our
relationship with God in our prayer lives as well.
But humility
is a very tricky thing. A few years ago the
Archbishop of Canterbury’s recommendation for a book for
Lent was one called ‘The Barefoot Disciple’ by
Stephen Cherry. In this book Stephen Cherry explores
what it means to live a life of humility. In it he
talks about something called the ‘humility trap’, saying
that the ‘humility trap’ is a paradox: as soon as we think
of ourselves as being humble, as having achieved humility,
we’re actually no longer being humble at all. It’s a
little like someone saying, “I’m a very humble person; in
fact, I think I might be the most humble person in the
whole world”.
The point of
Stephen Cherry’s book is that humility is always just
beyond the grasp of those who try to attain it, and can
only truly be achieved by those who give no thought to
themselves; who have no interest in their own status.
Jesus tells today’s parable as a way of illustrating this
paradox. There is a Pharisee who lives by God’s
laws. He doesn’t just do everything required of him
by the Law, but he goes above and beyond the bare
requirements and does more: he doesn’t just give a
percentage of certain foods to the Temple, but a tenth of
all his income. He prays and he fasts, and he makes
sure that he doesn’t associate with those ‘sinful folk
like that tax-collector’.
He knows why he is righteous. He gives thanks to
God, not for what he has, but that he’s not like those
other sinful people.
He asks
nothing of God.
In complete
contrast, there is the tax-collector. He is
considered to be a sinner, and he knows it! He
cannot boast before God because he has nothing to boast
about. He probably doesn’t do any of the things that
the Pharisee does, and so in his own eyes he is worthless,
therefore he prays with his head bowed and he beats his
chest in torment. He knows that he is a sinner, and
he asks God for mercy.
The Pharisee
asks nothing of God, because he believes he has nothing to
ask for. But the tax-collector asks for mercy,
because that is all he needs.
Jesus
completely turns upside-down our whole perception of who
is, and is not, righteous. The Pharisee is
righteous, but in his desire to boast about his
righteousness, and in failing to see the worth in those
that he considers lower than himself, he actually turns
away from God’s grace and forfeits any righteousness he
had. He already considers himself to be saved
because of the righteous things he has done, and so
paradoxically misses out on salvation, because he doesn’t
think to ask for it.
The
tax-collector, on the other hand, by recognising his own
failings and throwing himself on the mercy of God, opens
himself up to the abundance of God’s grace. He
humbles himself before God, and so receives the greatest
gift of all: God’s salvation through the forgiveness of
his sins.
All the way
through the Luke’s Gospel we are continuously told not to
look at the failings of others and ignore our own
failings. We must do the exact opposite. By
recognising our own faults, this helps enable us to be
more merciful towards the faults of others. This is
what we are praying for when we say, ‘forgive us our sins,
as we forgive those who sin against us’.
In our own
minds we can quickly identify similar people. Any of
us could be eligible to fit the bill and are probably
outwardly seen as religious people. We regularly
attend church services, we take part in church activities
and attend PCC meetings; we look nice, respectable
people. Surely we must be OK with God?
But we need
to ask ourselves honestly - what happens when we get home
or go to work? What do we say to the people around
us? Do we secretly think that by saying we are
Christian, we are also saying “I’m closer to God than you
are.” Do we judge others because they are not the
same as us?
Jesus wants
his followers to be authentic. Through His teachings
He gives us the right ingredients to help make us all
authentic, good Christians. To follow him by not
only saying, but also doing what God bids us to do. By not
being too quick to judge other people for what they look
like or what they say, and recognising that we are all
less than perfect.
Jesus is reminding us that it is in our humility when we
recognise the wrong we say or do, and by acknowledging
this recognition when praying to God. It is only
then, by the grace of God, that we can receive his
forgiveness and mercy.
I’d just like to finish with a short story from the
Sayings of the Desert Fathers:
A hermit
lived a life of prayer and contemplation up on the
hillside away from the monastery. When one of the
brothers in the monastery was accused of a sin, two of the
brothers came up to see the hermit. They asked him
to come down with them so that he could stand in judgement
over the sinful monk. The hermit told the monks to
return to the monastery and he would follow in a little
while.
Soon after,
the two monks saw the hermit walking down the hillside
with a huge basket on his back. As he passed them,
they noticed that sand was pouring out of a small hole at
the base of the basket.
“What
teaching is this?” they asked the hermit.
He replied,
“My sins run out behind me and I do not see them, yet I am
come to judge this man!”
The monks
decided to forgive their brother.
As Paul tells
us in his Letter to the Romans, chapter 3:
“For there is
no distinction: for all have sinned and fall short of the
glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift,
through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus”
(Romans 3:20-24)