Last Wednesday we commemorated the Souls of the faithful
departed. Death is inevitable and as we grow older we come
to accept that dying isn’t just something that happens to
others but it is a gate which one day we all have to pass
through. As we become more aware of our own frailty and
vulnerability I believe we become more connected to the
spiritual but whatever the circumstances, when someone we
love dies, their death can evoke some heart searching
questions. For many of us the commemoration of All Souls
last Wednesday provided us with a time to focus and
reflect on the lives of our loved ones, to remember and
give thanks for the influence they had on us and probably
still do have, even though sadly they have now have left
us behind here on earth. We talk of death being the
gateway to eternal life but I’m sure everybody young or
old who has had to come to terms with the death of a loved
one has at some point questioned what happened next, are
our nearest and dearest in heaven, have they come face to
face with our Lord and Maker, will anything of us survive
after death, will we ‘see them again’ what does
resurrection actually mean?
Only a couple
of weeks ago I had a conversation with a friend of mine
who has been very happily married twice. Her first husband
died leaving her with two young children, she devoted her
life to them but many years later she married again. She
always said that she couldn’t believe she had found such
happiness twice. Then sadly her second husband died last
Christmas. She had so many unanswered questions, her most
worrying one being whose wife she would be in heaven? She
thought I might have all the answers which of course I
don’t, and let’s be honest, despite our faith and our
beliefs, not one of us has any experience of life after
death. My friend and I did however have a very long
discussion about changed state and life beyond earth being
new and different.
Unlike some
of the Sadducees my friend wasn’t trying to trick me as
they were Jesus. Theologically they were staunch
conservatives, who would not accept any change or
development from what they read in the Torah, the law of
God as revealed to Moses and recorded in the first five
books of the Hebrew Scriptures. As was their way, they
offered Jesus a nonsense scenario asking which husband the
wife who had been widowed to seven brothers would see in
heaven when she died; Jesus quickly recognised the trap
they set before him. He knew that their thinking was
limited only to this world and God was someone contained
in their own images in a way that suited them, their minds
were small. Jesus already understood that God was greater
than anything, beyond the limits of our minds, our
imaginations and our world yet despite the complexities
and our inability to fully understand what eternity means,
we as Christians are journeying towards it. While we are
still on earth we exist in the progression of time but
eternity is timeless, there is no past and no future, it
just is.
To say that
we believe in eternal life means so much more than
believing in the immortality of the soul. To have eternal
life means to share in the divine life of God, to be fully
alive in his presence, to be one with him now in this life
and after death. We need to remember that whatever we do
here on earth, every breath, every action and thought is
already immersed in eternity and already known to God.
Eternity, in the way Christians understand it is not a
physical but a spiritual reality, it is our participation
in the eternal now of God, ‘in whom we live and move and
have our being.’ (Acts 17:28) The celebration of the great
mysteries of our faith affect our lives here and now and
we need to draw strength from our faith and union with
Jesus Christ. In our name and for our sake he won the
final victory over darkness and death and his resurrection
from the dead is at the heart of our faith and we affirm
those beliefs every time we say the Nicene Creed, ‘We look
for the resurrection of the dead and the life of the world
to come.’
Jesus told
the Sadducees that those who had died couldn’t die anymore
and had become children of the resurrection. God did not
create us to disappear into extinction. To know Jesus
Christ is to realise that all things are made new through
his resurrection. In death life is changed, but not ended;
changed by the power of Christ’s resurrection.
Yes, of
course with death there is so often grief but although the
way we die might be frightening death itself need not be
the terrifying experience we may imagine, especially if we
view it as re-birth. Death is the natural process by which
God leads us through one gateway to another where the
Kingdom is more glorious than we could ever have imagined
and I firmly believe that we will all be reunited with our
loved ones to enjoy the eternal banquet but we will be
changed; we will all become ‘children of the
resurrection.’
Michel
Quoist, a French priest and theologian who died around 20
years ago wrote.
As if there
were dead people!
There are no dead people, Lord
There are only the living, on earth and beyond.
Death is real, Lord,
But it’s nothing but a moment,
A second, a step,
The step from provisional to permanent,
From temporal to eternal.
So, in the death of a child, the adolescent is born, from
the caterpillar emerges the butterfly, from the grain the
full blown ear.
Yes, death does mean separation from this world, it is the
end of one journey and the beginning of another, it is the
gateway to a higher form of life
‘Dying
you destroyed our death.
Rising you restored our life.
Lord Jesus, come in glory.